zephyr
January 4, 2026 at 9:13:42 AM
I was informed about the situation.
I'm not here to spread hate, nor am I here to blame, shame, or accuse anyone. however, I would like to-- as respectfully and kindly as I can-- ask that you please remove mentions of me from the rentry. outside of affiliation with melody via a temporary relationship, I've no part in your drama personally, nor do I want to have any part in it. the constant updates that specifically mention me do more harm than good; it comes across as stalking and indirect harassment, unfortunately, and is extremely uncomfortable. I'm sure you all, with this, wouldn't want the unwilling involvement (and, unfortunately, harassment-- whether it's realized or not) of someone that has no part in the situation. as such, of course, I'm not angry about it! but I [I]am[I] extremely uncomfortable-- and have been for months now.
and, yes, I have known for a while, though I've wished to stay out of it. this isn't my deal, nor is it my place to involve myself in it. I simply didn't wish to send a message before now for fear that it would make things worse or possibly enrage either side.
I would also like to state that, while your concerns in the recent update are valid from an outside point of view, there was no sort of predatory behavior in that regard. we met after I had already turned 18; we hadn't known one another while I was a minor. I greatly appreciate the concern for my safety, though.
with that aside, I do wish you all luck and health on whatever healing you may pursue moving forward.
Replied on: January 6, 2026 at 10:20:38 PM
hello! i was originally going to keep this hidden for your privacy (and i wish it was able to be private even though i replied) but i did want to let you know that the concerns in the age update was in fact quite a few months ago, around september i believe, so it was not recent, and was not said as an attempt of indirect harassment (it was a statement from a place of genuine concern no matter what our tone was portraying in the rentry itself and has always been from a place of genuine concern) but other than that i have removed you from the rentry. i do also want to let you know that this is indeed not just "drama" and is an actual case of domestic abuse. there may be some unrelated things in the rentry that are not affiliated with the problem at hand (aside from the kinks as that is also a harmful issue itself), but the rentry was created after we discovered that she was threatening to harm us (her now-ex partners) and people in general, as well as shit talking about personal, uncontrollable issues behind our back for months. that is textbook domestic abuse and should be treated as abuse. you are free to not want to be involved, as i myself would not want to be involved either if this was not my own personal experience being put out, but to call an abuse case drama just seems a little harmful yk? it makes it sound like you're diminishing the bigger issue at hand (which i'm not saying that you are! but it sounds like it)
but other than that, thank you for the wishes.